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“A Virgin’s Mistake” – Wednesbury One Night Stands #2

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The second personal entry (first by letter) is a completely different tone to the first. It revolves around a surprisingly moving account of a young woman losing her virginity on the old Wednesbury rail track. As counter-intuitive as that sentence may sound, I am being serious.

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one night stand, wednesbury

one night stand, wednesbury

one night stand, wednesbury

one night stand, wednesbury

 

Dear Black Country Cinema,

 

I hope you find my story useful.

 

I was a very young looking 23 year old and at the time worked at a factory in Darlaston, but born, lived and raised in Wednesbury. I worked in a place full of teenage girls fresh out of school and because I never told them my age, and they never asked they assumed I was around their age too.

 

All the girls talked about were sex, some of them were lesbians and they weren’t afraid to let people know either. I was still a virgin, even though I’d been with my ex-boyfriend for two years prior. Looking back he was a nice one, but there was only so much of me putting off sex that any twenty year old boy could handle. I had a habit of ending relationships prematurely after this, just because I didn’t want to get too attached before the issue of sex came up. I’m still not quite sure why it was such a problem for me back then.

 

The girls said they were going to the Black Horse pub after work, then off to the Brunswick pub later in the evening, one of them knew the landlord so he let them get away with drinking. This suited me fine because I didn’t live far from the Brunswick at the time. They said they were going to meet a group of lads there and see what happens.

 

I made a stupid promise to myself that I would lose my virginity that night just to get it over with. At that point in my life it felt like my virginity was holding me back from my relationships with men far too much.

 

I went to the pub, met with the lads and got tipsy. Eventually after the pub’s last orders we all sat around Brunswick Park. I got talking to this one boy about something or another, all I remember is him telling me about his boring car, but seemed quite polite at the same time.

 

He was 19 and his five other friends weren’t much older, from what I remember he was the best looking and the one who didn’t join in with the group discussion about wanking with loo roll cores.

 

One of the girls who lived near me said she wanted to go home. One of the boys said she would walk her back, because she was so drunk I said I’d walk with them too, I didn’t live too far from her. The boy I was speaking with said he would keep us company too, so we walked down from the park and through the alley that leads to Hydes road, yes the one that looks over the old train line.

 

She and her boy started kissing half way into the ally, I’m not sure why but I immediately started to kiss my guy, the first time in my life I initiated a kiss. We quickly sneaked onto the grass near the over grown tracks.

 

It didn’t last long and was a little underwhelming, but it felt like so much weight was lifted. After we climbed back onto the ally to find my friend and the other guy having sex right in front of us. We walked out of the ally and waited for them, we both couldn’t stop laughing for some reason. We laughed for so long we forgot what we started laughing at.

 

On the way home the boy tried his best to awkwardly explain that what just happened was just sex and nothing else. Pleasantly surprised and taken back by his honesty I agreed and we both shook hands.

 

The next morning I felt so ashamed, not for having sex, but for what the other girls was going to say about me. Was I going to be mocked? Were they going to wink and congratulate me? Were they going to snigger as a walk in and whisper gossip and quite down as I get closer to my locker? All of them sounded like hell to me, someone who has always preferred to stay in the background.

 

Anxiously I walked into work the following Monday, walked into my department, and to my surprise, it was like any other day. Nothing changed at all, everyone said the same things, same greetings and same attitudes.

 

My night on the over grown grass with a boy I never properly spoke to again was never spoken or referred to again.

 

A few years later I moved to a car hire company and met my hubby, i made him wait a month before we had sex and it worked fine for both of us.
Now I’m older I realised how silly it all was, but if I’m to be completely honest, it was the only way I was going to learn that lesson.

 

I’d love to have saved myself for my husband, but I know without this experience my relationship with him would have ended like all the rest. I saw it as a mistake for so many years, but now I’m older I know it was a mistake that needed to happen.

 

Just to add. I went to Wodensborough high school (now academy, not far from the rail tracks) and there was a rumour that the area used to be the site of pagan rituals that were done to worship Woden in the seventh century AD. This is why you have Wodensborough you see. Apparently there were sex rituals and such that used to happen on the fields. If like me that kind of thing is interesting, you could make a connection to the areas sex activates.

(Still typing up letter)

It’s not just about perverts.

If I’m honest, the main reason this letter excited me so much was its lack of salaciousness. Every personal story sent up until this point have been hollow sexual descriptions that verge on “adult literature”, so to have such a delicate and earnest story was a pleasant surprise. 

However, it almost refutes the idea that the one night stand rumour descended from the mysterious woman in the shop. Meaning there may not be a clear cut explanation to this underground phenomenon.

Wodenic pagan sex rituals?

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Wednesbury has often celebrated its Wodenic/Norse history and as the woman who wrote the letter pointed out, there are certain street and school names that refer to it. Even the word Wednesbury itself derives from an Anglo-Saxon term that (possibly) meant “Woden’s Hill” or “Woden’s barrow”.

Nonetheless, neither Wōdenic or Norse religions have reputations for sex rituals. Pagan sex practices are commonly associated with the Great Rite, which is a neopagan tradition attributed to Wicca, and is relatively recent. So taking this into account, plus the fact there is no recorded evidence of Wednesbury having Wiccan affiliations, it seems this particular rumour is a myth. It is still interesting though, that people have used this legend to justify the one night stand incidences.

But if I’m wrong about any of this, please let me know.

8 Simple Steps to Earn Money by Supporting Our Film

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When Living Legends Meet – Wong Kar Wai & Martin Scorsese

I’m a huge admirer of both Wong Kar Wai & Martin Scorsese, both amazing auteurs in their own right. So when when I came across a video where one interviews the other, I had to share it. Not only is this video an opportunity to hear the working processes of two filmmaking legends, but also a chance to see just how in tune they both are. An inspiration for filmmakers the world over.

Tell Us Your Favorite Place in The Black Country & We’ll Make A Film About It

In the spirit and strength of the Black Country community, we want you to tell us where to set our next video poem. We want to hear from everyone who knows and loves the Black Country to tell us about their favourite place. This can be absolutely anywhere – a street, a canal, a shop, a park – as long as you it means something to you (and it’s in the Black Country of course).

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What We Want From You

We were totally inspired by the Black Country Pics Twitter page. People submit photographs daily of some of the most beautiful scenes the Black Country has to offer. In similar fashion, we’d like you to send us a photograph, a painting, a story, a poem or just a few words that describes the importance of the place you want to see in our film.

We’ll select 10 of our favourites and hold an online vote, creating a video poem dedicated to the winning place. The best 10 will also get a special mention in the final film and receive one of our limited edition DVD’s (see below). If you’re not familiar with any of our stuff, then definitely head over to our Short Films and Video Poetry pages.

You Can Either:

Submit in the comments below, and remember to wrap any images in html tags e.g. <img src="full url of image">

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Tweet via our Twitter page remembering to include #luvintheblackcountry
Of course you’ll have less characters to tell us why so photographs will be better for this one.

To Say Thank you…

Welcome to the Black Country DVDWe’re going to give 10 of our favorite entries a copy of our limited edition compilation DVD Welcome to the Black Country. So make sure you leave your email address in the correct box in the comments below so we can get in touch (we will never share your email address). If you submit via Twitter, as long as you include #luvintheblackcountry we’ll contact you that way.

Who Are We?

Black Country Cinema has been creating films based around the Black Country for some time now. As you can guess by our name, it’s what we’re all about. As filmmakers, we want to use what we do best to represent the place we grew up in and love. Our films are a tribute to the place we’ll always call home.

Smethwick, Oldbury, West Bromwich, Dudley and Wednesbury have all made regular appearances in our films. We even used Wolverhampton as the setting for our debut feature film Coffee in Winter.

We’ve gained a small but loyal following of Black Country folk over the past 5 years, and we’ve really appreciated the love and support. It’s amazing how prominent we’ve become as a community through social media with guys like Distinctly Black Country, an official Black Country Day and a massive festival to ring out 2014 called Black Country Echoes. We’ve even got an anthem by The Empty Can called I Vow To Thee Black Country and a flag.

Getting all emotional. Anyway, we’re look forward to all your photographs and stories, and do get in touch if you have any questions. Here’s The Empty Can with the Black Country anthem to inspire you.

- The Black Country Cinema team